Viewers' favourite Tuffers has to be yelled at and even playfully slapped to get his twinkle-toes moving.
Katya explained: "I get frustrated. I hit him last week. On Tuesdays it's the worst because he comes in and goes, 'Oh I will never get it.'
"I have to be his shrink and his teacher and his friend - yet I still have to listen to all the whining and the bitching.
"My biceps have grown about 2cm since we started training together. I told him I felt like I was holding furniture all day.
"He keeps going, 'I can't do it, I can't do it' and I get annoyed. We shout because we're aggressive people."
Phil, 43, confirmed: "Every Tuesday there are big fights. There's shouting and punching. She tells me I am 'like a fish' because I am always flopping around.
"I don't find being bossed around by Katya invigorating at all - I find it hard work. Very hard work."
Even Phil's wife Dawn admitted: "He thought Strictly would be a laugh but Katya has had to take him in hand. He can be a lazy sod! At least this gets him off the couch."
Katya spoke out after getting complaints from Phil's female fans because he wrote on Twitter that she'd thrown a pen at him.
She said: "I didn't throw it hard. It was out of frustration. Phil keeps reminding me who he is - a legend!"
But Katya, 25, who arrived in the UK this year, had never even HEARD of her celeb partner before.
"I'm reading his biography and learning a lot about him. I'm sure glad I didn't read it before I met him!"
Phil's past exploits include heavy smoking, boozing and womanising. His ex-wife Lisa claimed he caused her "anxiety, stress and an eating disorder".
And he got hit in the face with a brick by ex-girlfriend Jane McEvoy's dad after slapping her. In 2003 Phil won ITV show I'm A Celebrity. On Strictly, he had to have keyhole surgery to repair a ligament in his knee earlier this month.
Phil said: "This is much harder than I'm A Celeb - that was great fun. It was just sitting about having a chat, drinking some wine and eating a few bugs.
"This is actually hard work. I played cricket for 20 years - not a mark on me. I dance for a couple of weeks and I injure my knee.
"Obviously, dancing is not ideal rehab. It is nerve-wracking. On the inside my heart is racing.
"I haven't really turned to anything for help. Some people start drinking - I've done that. Smoking - done that."
To help him learn, Katya has turned the rehearsal studio into a cricket field.
Phil said: "We go sacheting down to third man then we pivot off to the slips."
This article has 11 comments
Phil who? never heard of him.
He's that much of a legend that everyone has forgotten him.
By Lorna. Posted October 26 2009 at 3:23 PM.
I like him as he seems quite cheeky and not half bad at dancing but after reading this I'm thinking - why sign up to do something like this if you're not going to put a bit of effort into it??
By Shannon. Posted October 25 2009 at 8:48 PM.
he is a stupid plonker, i cant stand him.
By mags. Posted October 25 2009 at 6:13 PM.
cannot stand him he comes across as a utter slime ball
By jaynewain. Posted October 25 2009 at 3:25 PM.
vile little man, would not touch him with a barge pole. should have been kicked off ages ago.
By cat woman. Posted October 25 2009 at 2:37 PM.
I think Tuffers is brilliant, he always makes me smile.
His enthusiasm is catching.
Go Tuffers!!!!
By helen, glasgow. Posted October 25 2009 at 2:34 PM.
I couldn't agree more. He is making a nuisance of himself.
I prefer Craig and Anton anytime.
By Jeane. Posted October 25 2009 at 2:08 PM.
your all jelous of tuffers this man is a legend trust me he will get to the quarters of s.c.d
By vaps. Posted October 25 2009 at 11:58 AM.
I only came across him when he started doing all the reality tv stuff. I've never taken to him at all - he tries too hard as though he's trying to cover something up.
By Jaded. Posted October 25 2009 at 8:51 AM.
Laura. I agree with you!
By Jaynesgrandma. Posted October 25 2009 at 3:09 AM.
Cant stand the man - had no idea who he was until Strictly and he does not come across very well
By laura. Posted October 25 2009 at 12:57 AM.