
But sparks flew sooner than she'd planned-when her friend tried to book a male stripper for the hen night.
The pal found the perfect candidate on a website-a strapping, good-looking porn star.
Only problem was, he was the fella set to wed Haylie . . . and she had no idea of his sordid job.
The horrified lass dumped her fiance, Jason Brake, 30, just four weeks before her dream day.
And last night she told the News of the World: "It turns my stomach thinking about him having sex with other women then coming home to me and doing it all again.
"I'm surprised he could be bothered doing it for free!
"He's a fool because how could he think he'd ever get away with it? It's on the net for God's sake."
Jason, 30, told Haylie he worked as a fitness instructor. But he was really building up his muscles through XXX- rated sexercise with other girls- including mega- boobed porn queen Cathy Barry.
When Haylie confronted him, he said: "I would have told you all about it but you never asked me." Yesterday she said: "What sort of an answer was that? I went from heartbreak to boiling rage and threw him out." The couple met last year when smooth- talking Jason booked his car in at the Bristol garage where Haylie works. They had been dating for five months when he proposed.
Haylie said: "It felt special from the off-we were devoted to each other. He treated me all the time. After a month he moved in, and when he asked me to marry him it felt right.
"The physical side of things was mind-blowing too. It's hardly surprising knowing what I know now. It was his job!"
She spent £800 on a wedding dress and booked the reception at a country house near Clifton. "I wanted it to be big and spectacular," she said. But the dream was over when her shocked pal came to her house and said she had seen Jason on a strippers' website.
Next to his picture was a link to a porn clip of him having sex with another woman.
Jason said last night: "I started doing porn films before I met Haylie. My main job is as a personal trainer.
"The porn was just a job. I did a couple of shoots while I was with Haylie and one or two stripping bookings. It's good pay.
"I've pleaded with Haylie to have me back and I've stopped the stripping and porn films."
But Hayley said: "The images of him having sex have flashed through my mind-I know it wouldn't work."
This article has 31 comments
Well Jason, you get busted this time. Shame on you pal!
By Robert. Posted July 23 2009 at 8:29 AM.
Well, you could always go on Jeremy Kyle.
Seriously though, caring but NO sharing.
The guy is a numpty if he thought a WIFE would put up with that
By val. Posted June 24 2009 at 10:55 AM.
But we have to ask why her friend thought that it was alright to book a male stripper/porn star for her hen night.
Quite alright to have one to provide "entertainment" at the party but another thing to get married to him.
Surely, if she were that averse to the idea of male porn stars, the friend would have had more respect than to have booked one...unless of course they all wanted a little filmed fun before she committed herself.
By SteveK. Posted June 23 2009 at 11:49 PM.
As for those saying she's not that hot: From the looks of these pictures of them, she's hardly much worse looking than he is.
By Tommy. Posted June 23 2009 at 8:04 AM.
Oh dear dear dear, shouldn't porn stars have the right to fall in love, marry, have free sex and still be a porn star? It is a job after all, unless your husband is a porn star in gay porn, now that would be confusing. Poor guy.
By SF. Posted June 23 2009 at 4:15 AM.
The classic line from a player: "You never asked." He's probably had the soul sucked out of him along with his body fluids and is devoid of actually feeling anything, let alone remorse.
By Sharon. Posted June 22 2009 at 11:55 PM.
Did she actually really know this guy before she agreed to marry him? My guess is NO. What the hell is she bleating for anyway? She booked a stripper for her hen night. She's just miffed because she could have one last fling before she got married. Silly Cow
By Lorna Wanstall. Posted June 21 2009 at 7:47 PM.
NO THEO - MEN DO NOT USUALLY BOOK 20 STONE ROLY POLYS FOR THEIR STAG DO YOU LIAR !
THEY BOOK FIT SEXY YOUNG STRIPPERS - SO STOP WITH THE BLOODY KIDOLOGY !
IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE THAT THIS GIRL WAS BOOKING A STRIPPER FOR HER HEN NIGHT - HOW CAN THAT BE COMPARED TO YOUR HUSBAND TO BE BEING A NASTY PORN STAR WHO GETS PAID TO HAVE SEX WITH JUST ABOUT ANYBODY..? IT`S ENOUGH TO MAKE YOUR FLESH CRAWL. AS FOR HOW THIS GIRL LOOKS - SHE`S ATTRACTIVE AND NICELY DRESSED - SO WHY ALL THE PUT DOWNS YOU LOT..? AND I DON`T BLAME HER FOR MAKING SOME MONEY OUT OF TELLING THIS CREEP`S STORY - HE WILL BE WELL KNOWN WHERE HE LIVES NOW AND WON`T BE ABLE TO PULL THIS TRICK AGAIN - SO WELL DONE HER !!
By LANA. Posted June 21 2009 at 7:00 PM.
what are some people posting really stupid comments. I do agree she has not done anything bad at all but people can be so rude and comment on whether she looks hot or bad. The issue is what he did was bad and it shows that no matter how muh you think you know somebody you really dont know them.Its the fact
By shola. Posted June 21 2009 at 5:27 PM.
PS: why she so happy in her photo? Kerchingggg
By Hazza. Posted June 21 2009 at 3:21 PM.
Both as bad as each other! she's hardly a looker and am sure he can pull better ones! She should be happy she caught the weasle in time! What a BS, oh she never asked so i didn't tell her! What a plonker! Women should be as sincere too, not ravishing blokes just before they marry! What happened to morals?
By Hazza. Posted June 21 2009 at 3:11 PM.
how could you marry someone you dont know anything about?
By miss tell-it-like-it-is. Posted June 21 2009 at 2:47 PM.
lol @ Theo - yes its the girls fault he was a stripper and a porn star behind her back because they went looking to book for a stripper for the hen do. Of course its her fault, because if she hadnt found out then that would be ok wouldnt it? lmao!
By lea. Posted June 21 2009 at 2:28 PM.
Those clubs are pretty wild, women are out of control
they do XXX rated stuff with the strippers from their seats in the audience, on stage sometimes in pairs behind a towel and backstage too. Far far worse than the clubs that guys go to like Spearmint Rhino where you can look but not touch
By Rajee Mulan. Posted June 21 2009 at 12:35 PM.
Okay, lets not be personal here, be fair. She is not a bad looking girl, who could do a lot better than that ponce.
'You did'nt ask me' what a cheek, she should'nt need to, if he loved her he should have been honest and told her, not let her find out the way she did.
However, I cannot understand why she has put this all over the papers. Who want's to know about her private life, people get ditched a lot and don't go blagging to the papers.
Have a bit of decorum girl. You have got rid of him, now get on with your life - there is someone out there for you.
By Bonnieb. Posted June 21 2009 at 1:16 PM.
very funny, isn't it? A couple f my mates have got married recently, and for the stags they went out for a good old fashioned blokes night out. There was no strip club, no stripper. But no, on hens girls have to book a fit male stripper so they could get their claws into him and pull his bits for "a laugh". If you want a laugh, then why don't girls book a roly poly 60 year old bloke? After all, when blokes usually book strippers for stags, it's a 20st roly poly who comes there for a laugh. I don't feel sorry for her in any way. If she was really sorry for heself, will she be coming to the newspapers? Why do you want to wash your dirty linen in public? At least, he is getting paid for what he does. It's his job. Yes, he should have mentioned it, but what was her mate doing on the porn site? Curiosity kills the cat
By Theo. Posted June 21 2009 at 11:33 AM.
She hasn't humiliated herself at all - why has she? I think she probably wants to expose him as a liar and a cheat to as many people as possible in order to get revenge for the hurt he has caused her. And if she makes a bit of money out of it, happy days. Revenge is a natural response.
Apart from that, just because the friend wanted to book a stripper doesn't mean she would naturally assume that every stripper has another half, or has a sideline in porn either. Some of these responses are so dumb.
Bottom line: he was making porn when he was seeing her and hid it. That's called cheating and is a betrayal of trust and cannot be forgiven or forgotten. You can do better for yourself love - move on.
By Lolly. Posted June 21 2009 at 11:27 AM.
The "friend" was a bit of a sugar to blab.Why didn't she have a quiet word with him and say that the bride may find out blah blah blah.And WTF is she going to the papers about it for?
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By mrs_spratt. Posted June 21 2009 at 10:55 AM.
Hahah, he got to bang Cathy Barry so at least something good came out of it!
By Wench.. Posted June 21 2009 at 9:53 AM.
She can`t be so pure if she watches filth herself. She should think herself lucky that she has a virile man.
By Will. Posted June 21 2009 at 9:48 AM.
So her "friend" wanted to book a stripper for her hen night...........
If it had been someone else's boyfriend stripping for her hen night then that's fine then is it?
By Daz. Posted June 21 2009 at 8:16 AM.
This was in one of the victim magazines this week. She's obviously not that horrified and wanting to hide under a rock if she's selling her story all over the place!
By sammy. Posted June 21 2009 at 8:21 AM.
But why go to the press with it? She's now humiliated herself in front of complete strangers.
By Alex . Posted June 21 2009 at 9:01 AM.
He should have been truthful from the start. I feel sorry for Haylie, what a slimeball, some men are never satisfied. I can understand how she feels, if my fella went with that s*** Cathy Barry, it would turn my stomach, apart from her silicone boobs, she looks and talks like a man!!!
By Sharon . Posted June 21 2009 at 8:44 AM.
that's nice "she's not that ugly" she's a pretty girl & why should she be picked on because her ex is a cheating pig? nobody know's when somebody will cheat, no matter how long you have been with them..
By jo. Posted June 21 2009 at 8:06 AM.
She's not THAT ugly, and plus, least she got morals! If my bf did this to me, i'd tell him to do one too.....goooo girl!! :) x
By Gem. Posted June 21 2009 at 6:39 AM.
With 2 million plus unemployed there will probably be alot of guys considering this as an option to pay their bills........... She did jump into this relationship a bit quick moving him in after a month, he must have talents
By Lilly. Posted June 21 2009 at 5:44 AM.
He should thank his lucky stars, hardly a babe is she? You'd have thought sheould have been on a diet for the wedding, but obviously not
By Silas. Posted June 21 2009 at 2:32 AM.
"You never asked me"! What else should she have asked about?!
By Siobhan. Posted June 21 2009 at 2:13 AM.
hahahahahahahahahahaha!!!! You couldnt make it up could you! Proper mad its odds on that she forgives n forgets these type of shallow and brainless slappers are typical of a decent sized chunk of our so called broken society! "How could he think he would get away with it" she says,well its nice to know you got to know him realy realy well during the ever so long courting period you had together love ,but at least the ones who always suffer during mega quick and mega shallow relationships like this one( the kids )are not part of this funny but also sad joke of a true and trusting loving relationship!
By paul . Posted June 21 2009 at 1:09 AM.
well, life is survival of the fittest! U've got to pay your bills, and there is no business like show business, u are into showbiz my son! Just make the dough, women come and go...lol
By chris. Posted June 21 2009 at 1:06 AM.