
I pray her kids forgive her
Jehovah outcast's message to twins who lost mum
when she refused transfusion
By Amanda Evans & Emma Shankland
AN ex-Jehovah's Witness whose dad died refusing a blood transfusion
last night blasted the religion that led tragic mum Emma Gough
to leave her newborn twins motherless.
Following the inquest this week into how devout Emma died obeying
her church's order to turn down lifesaving blood, crusading Lisa
Magdalena (left) told of her hope the babies can one day
FORGIVE their mother.
Hell
She said: "I didn't know Emma or her husband Anthony but
when birth complications set in she had two choices—TAKE
the blood and be struck down as a sinner bound for hell, or DON'T
take it and die. Not a nice dilemma.
"But after what happened to me, I can see the situation
through the eyes of her little son and daughter.
"I was only two but if I'd been allowed in the hospital
when my dad said no to the transfusion, I'd have been on my knees
screaming, ‘Please Daddy! Don't leave us!'"
Lisa's father Keith Playford made legal history in 1972 when
the hospital treating him after a wisdom tooth op won a court
ruling to administer blood AGAINST his will.
But he died before they could act. Lisa said: "By the time
I was a teenager I was filled with anger and confusion. I couldn't
understand how my dad chose to die when he could have been saved.
Because of that I grew up watching other kids with their dads
and I felt sick with jealousy and grief."
Ironically pretty Lisa, 38, from Eastbourne, Sussex, has TWICE
been forced to make that life or death decision herself—and
paid the price by being cast out by the Witnesses.
When she gave birth to daughter Zeta, now 14, she lost a lot
of blood like 22-year-old Emma from Telford, Shropshire, but ACCEPTED
the transfusion.
Four years ago she developed blood cancer and had EIGHT
more transfusions.
"I didn't think twice about it," said Lisa, now recovered.
"But I was shunned by the church. So I know the kind of life
Emma was facing had she taken that blood.
"The Jeho-vah's Witness rules about transfusions are warped.
It all stems from a passage in the Bible which says you should
not drink the blood of an animal. It's crazy. They eat meat and
even accept organ donations but they won't allow blood transfusion.
"How can they think that's what the Bible meant? They didn't
even have blood transfusions then.
"Now I've set up my own counselling service for people facing
the choice and I'm writing a book about my life called Comply
Or Die."
Jehovah's Witness spokesman Tony Brace said: "We have deep
fellow feeling for the family of Emma Gough following her tragic
premature death.
"As believers in the Bible we support Emma's personal decision
to obey its command to abstain from blood."
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